Kissed on the cheek on the day of the first meeting. Wife of Alexei Talai on how they met

Who doesn't know Alexey Talai - Paralympic athlete, motivational speaker, businessman and just a very strong person? The CTB film crew met with his wife Anastasia and found out how an unusual couple met, what the young woman dreams and aspires to, and what she appreciates in her husband. The day after the first meeting, he introduced me to his friends. My acquaintance with my husband is very unique because it happened on social media. And it developed virtually, we communicated, opened up to each other. We became so attached at a distance ... He was in America at that time, we could not see each other, even if we wanted to. how an unusual couple met, what a young woman dreams and aspires to, and what she appreciates in a husband. The day after the first meeting, he introduced me to friends. My acquaintance with my husband is very unique, because it happened in social networks. And it developed virtually, we communicated, opened up to each other. We became so attached at a distance ... He was in America at that time, we could not see each other, even if we wanted to. how an unusual couple met, what a young woman dreams and aspires to, and what she appreciates in a husband. The day after the first meeting, he introduced me to friends. My acquaintance with my husband is very unique, because it happened in social networks. And it developed virtually, we communicated, opened up to each other. We became so attached at a distance ... He was in America at that time, we could not see each other, even if we wanted to.
And when the meeting time was approaching, it was important to understand whether we could communicate in this way - in life, not through the Internet. It turned out that there is even some kind of love. Indeed, we met, and it grew into love.
Signs of attention showed, of course. A couple of times even gifts came from America. A bouquet of flowers, for example, from Alexei, who is thousands of kilometers away. It surprised. We met on the first evening as soon as Alexey arrived. So, by chance, he also drove up to me with a bouquet. Everything went carefully, but I kissed him on the cheek. The next day we already met in the circle of his friends, he introduced me to them. I wanted a strong man next to me, and the depth of Alexei was hooked. I looked at how his ordinary everyday life looks in general - how he eats, how he takes a glass. I saw that a person, in principle, serves himself. At that moment, of course, you do not think about the future. I never thought that I would ever have to help him with something, dress him. I felt more in my heart that I want to be with this person.
Everyone who communicates with Alexei, probably everyone will say this, who knows him, that he is charming, charismatic and strong as a man. And this depth hooked. I generally grew up without a father, and I always wanted a strong man next to me. Somehow this, apparently, is reflected in our choice. Sisterly love for women: I know what it's like, and I want everything to be fine with you too During the first maternity leave, I was completely at home. I enjoyed motherhood. Perhaps, even because of my young age, it was difficult for me to navigate both there, and there, and there. During the second maternity leave, somehow I already began to understand that I want some other kind of self-development.
Even while on maternity leave, I decided to take a centralized test, entered the university, completed breastfeeding courses, and went to the gym to train. I completed the courses, issued special certificates. Specialists who possess them have the right to help women if something goes wrong with breastfeeding.
You can come home to a nursing mother, you can consult online. Some kind of sisterly love for women: I know what it's like, and I want everything to be fine with you too. Because so much a woman gets into such ... alone with yourself you think: “Am I doing everything right?” And when this is the first time, when this is the first child and you think: “Here, he is crying. So I'm probably doing something wrong. Maybe he doesn't have enough milk? Although the most important indicator is weight gain. But when a baby cries, we think, "Oh, he must be hungry." Therefore, helping is such female solidarity. I was carried away by sports, I thought: “Why not go to university?” I was very interested in sports. When I saw that from our nutrition, physical development, movement, a person can change so much both in terms of well-being and in terms of physical forms. I decided that it was interesting for me, and I thought: “Why not go to university?” But at the university this development will have something in common with medicine. It is doctors who enter this specialty - physical rehabilitation. This is also, one might say, treatment, prevention of diseases with the help of movement. Movement is life. Our boy, when he was a baby, we fastened a seat belt to the stroller. If my day is more busy, then Alexei can even go out with the children. Our boy, when he was a baby, we fastened a seat belt to the stroller, and please. The main thing is to dress warmly. Sports, by the way, Alexei instills in his son. He took it to the pool. I don’t go anywhere with Alexei, but I want to. I think he will be pleased. Oddly enough, I don't go anywhere with Alexei at all. He mostly travels with his brother or with some of his assistants. I usually stay with the kids. We are rooting for him here, always in touch. Of course, we are worried, worried and always prepare in advance so that dad will go with full strength, healthy.
But I have never. I still want to go somewhere with Alexei and support him. Yes, and he, I think, will be pleased if I go somewhere. Alexei has a simple attitude to life, natural. He understands that every day is a gift. Alexey is a man himself, who energizes and gives us support. Even me. Of course, it takes a lot of energy - I see when he sometimes comes exhausted. But a couple of days of recovery, and Alexei again ... In principle, he always, no matter what situation happens, does not lose heart. He has a simple attitude to life, natural. He just lives and understands that every day is like a gift.
It's wonderful when you feel happiness from some little thing. From the fact that you just sit on the couch, drink tea, your kids run around. Or vice versa, we walk along some forest paths, here the children run, and you understand that you are happy. Happiness, it is, the line is thin, and only the person himself can make himself happy, because this is self-adjustment in the first place. Happiness can be near, but you just don’t understand what happiness is.

| Prepared by Yana BOLOTNIKOVA based on STV material. | Screenshots of STV video.